Relationships are a lot more dynamic than we sometimes give them credit for. While many people are familiar with traditional love languages, newer insights—like those from Dr. Tamara Fackrell’s work—highlight a few additional ways people feel deeply connected, especially through shared experiences and meaningful communication.
What makes this perspective so powerful is that it goes beyond just how we express love—it helps us understand how our partner receives it. And when we get that right, everything feels a little easier: communication flows better, connection deepens, and relationships become more fun and fulfilling.
One simple way to remember these key expressions of love is through the acronym PRAISED:
P – Presents: Thoughtful gifts that show you were thinking about them
R – Recreation: Having fun together and creating shared memories
A – Appreciation: Genuine words that make your partner feel seen and valued
I – Intimacy: Physical and emotional closeness that builds trust
S – Service: Doing things that make your partner’s life easier
E – Exchange of Communication: Open, honest conversations that build understanding
D – Devoted Time: Giving your full attention—no distractions, just connection
When you start to recognize which of these matter most to your partner, it becomes a lot easier to love them in a way that truly lands. And the best part? It doesn’t have to feel complicated—it can actually make your relationship feel more natural, more intentional, and a lot more fun.
This Romance Survey assesses your individual romance style so that the mindful efforts that you give in your relationship can be tailored to you and your spouse.
This test will open your eyes to endless possibilities for enhancing your marriage!
